Showing posts with label goals. Show all posts
Showing posts with label goals. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Aunty M's New Year's Resolutions

SO here we are, 2012!  2011 just flew by.  ALL of the years seem to just fly by.  I can't believe my first baby will be 18 years old this year and my little man will be 3 years old in just a couple days.  INSANE!  This past year made me realize just how much time and money I have wasted on stupid things over my 35 years.  Seeing how much my children have grown over the past couple years really makes me sad.  For a number of reasons.  But one of them is that I feel like I have missed out on so much of their lives by working full time and so far away from home... although there are days on the weekend when I shamefully beg for the peace and quiet of my office. 

I have decided that my New Years Resolutions will consist of the following:
  1. Continue to eat Clean.
  2. Fit exercise in whenever I can, whether that be an actual 45 minute workout or simple doing squats while waiting for water to boil.
  3. Try to be more patient.
  4. Do more fun stuff with my kids. Just hanging out and being goofy.  Finding something that me and my 17 YO can do that does not require a hundred dollars, rolling around on the floor with my little guy...so what if I get covered in dog hair and my hair ends up a mess.
  5. Walk our dogs on a regular basis.  Maybe I can get up early and walk them?  Or perhaps a family walk with the doggies after dinner??
  6. Get my crafting business off the ground by doing the following:
    • Finalizing prices
    • Making business cards for my quilting and distributing 
    • Listing items on Etsy
    • Possibly working a craft fair
    • Managing my time more wisely to maximize production
  7. Encourage Hubby to sell some of his photography.
  8. Get my boy on a better schedule and out of our bed!
  9. Cut back on frivolous spending.
  10. Start organizing local park clean ups again.
  11. Explore more of New England.  We really do live in a cool part of the US but we often stay cooped up in our city.  There is so much to see and lots and lots of history.  One of the things I want to do is the "McIntire" walk in Salem, MA.  I found out a few years ago that Samuel McIntire is my great great great great great grandfather.  He is a legendary architect who built a lot of historic Salem. 
I am sure there are lots more things I resolve to get done in 2012, I will add them as they come to me.

I hope everyone had a wonderful holiday and a Happy New Year!  Here's to a fantastic, healthy, happy and prosperous 2012!  Let's all make it the best it can be!

Friday, November 11, 2011

JUST DO IT!

If it is important to you, you will find a way. If not you'll find an excuse.

This statement is true for all aspects of life.  I am really trying my hardest to not make excuses for anything anymore.

If it is important to me to lose weight and be healthier, there should be no excuse, I should just be making the changes needed to be healthier.  I have already made significant changes but I know in order to reach my goals I will need to kick it up a notch.

I seem to have already hit a plateau in my weight lose although I have only lost 10 pounds.  I was consuming 1700 calories a day, but I have decided to cut out 200-300 of those calories and bring my total daily intake down to 1400-1500 a day.

I also RAN on the treadmill at work last week.  This was SUPER exciting for me.  I have never ever been a runner, but with my injury it just seemed so out of the question.  Granted it was only a 2 minute sprint, but it felt great and not only did I challenge my body, I challenged my mind.  I KNOW that a big part of my limited exercise is mental fear of hurting myself.  But I showed myself that I can do alot more than I give myself credit for.  As a birthday present to myself, I ordered a pair of FiveFingers sneakers.  I've heard great things about these funky little sneaks.  Hopefully I will be able to wear them comfortably on my bum foot and really focus on incorporating at least 10-15 minutes a day running on the work treadmill.  If not, I will return them, get my money back and just wear my old sneakers and do the same.

If it is important to me to be financially stable and also prepare for my retirement and my son's continued education, then there should be no excuse.  I have went from zero savings, no retirement fund, and no college fund to a little over $200 saved over a couple accounts, enrolling in the 401k plan at work and also enrolling in a 529 college fund for my son.  I have cut back on spending, made a plan to tackle and pay off all of my debt, and made my first significant payment towards eliminating debt.  All of this in less than 4 weeks.

I plan to continue in this manner, cutting back even more.  I am anxiously awaiting January, when my contract with Verizon wireless will be up and I can drop them and go with Virgin Mobile as a provider.  I currently pay approximately $60/month with VW, I will only pay $27/month with Virgin Mobile.  HALF!  The money I save I will put toward paying down my debt.

I have been coupon crazy over the past month and have saved over $100, just by clipping coupons and being semi-organized.  I also saved .80/gallon on gas during my last fill up just by carefully planning my grocery shopping at Stop & Shop.  That was very exciting :)  $2.46/gallon!!  I have also been depositing the amount that I save with coupons in to my savings jar.  I will go to the bank this weekend and deposit all that I have saved into my savings account and I WILL NOT TOUCH IT!

If it is important to me to have a clean, presentable and inviting home than I will do what it takes to make it that way.  I will stick to my cleaning schedule and take care of my small daily tasks.  By spending a few minutes everyday I alleviate myself from being stressed out and confined to my house to clean for the entire weekend.  It is important to me to not be overwhelmed by what is on my plate.  If I am overwhelmed and stressed then something needs to change.  I know that if I do not prioritize my time efficiently I do not get anything done and I end up running around like a mad woman and usually have a crappy attitude that I unfortunately subject my family to.  When I take a few minutes to evaluate my surroundings and what needs to be done, everything just falls into place.  I know that I can not do everything in one day, so I prioritize what is most important and take care of that first.

Small changes bring major results!  No more excuses, just get 'er done!

What have you been making excuses for?  How will you overcome and make the changes necessary?  Please share :)

Thursday, September 1, 2011

It's a new day

So today is the first day of September. At this very moment, I am sitting on my couch, watching a documentary on Jean-Michel Basquiat, listening to my hubby workout upstairs...thinking to myself, I need to bring my fat ass up there and do the same. I am making a promise to myself right now that I AM WILL GET UP EARLY TOMORROW MORNING AND WORKOUT!

Instead of getting my exercise on now, I am going to bang out a list of areas of my life that need improvement:

BODY
Exercise more
Eat healthier
Take better care of my hair and skin
Drink more water
Stop neglecting myself and make ME a priority
Go to bed (MUCH) earlier
Get up at least a 1/2 hour earlier than I do now

MENTAL
Learn to be more patient
Learn how to relax
Stifle my minor road rage
Enjoy the simple things in life

FINANCIAL
Manage money better
Save money
Market my crafts and natural body products
Develop a successful home based business to supplement my income

HOME
Become more organized
Kick the clutter
Maintain my cleaning schedule
Create a more harmonious environment

I am sure that there are more areas of my life that need work, but off the top of my head, this is what I've got. This is plenty to get started on. It has taken me over an hour to conjure this up and I can still hear my Hubstah working out up there. Why don't I have that type of drive?! I will get up a 1/2 hour earlier tomorrow and get on that Total Gym before work. I will start the 2nd say of the month off right!

Off to bed I go.

Ni-Night!